The Japanese people always got something different with them. Their culture and lifestyle widely differ from western culture.
Just like the Japanese are renowned for their culture, they are famous for one more thing. Their sex patterns and styles differ from those of other countries.
This article will highlight one of their famous ✅Japanese Rope Bondage technique. But the first question should be, why need ropes in sex? What makes them so erotic?
Rope Bondage
After the involvement of Japanese rope bondages like Shibari, they have. After using these techniques, it is well proven that your sexual life spikes up to the most.
The bonded person is at the total mercy of his dominator, which makes it even sexier! If you are into BDSM or want to try your hands into something most erotic of all, then Japanese Rope Bondages are for YOU.
If you are a newbie, first, it is essential to brush yourself up with some history of rope bondage techniques. Where was it first originated, and what was in the mind of the person who tried it first?
Well, without further due, let us get started with the oh-so-erotic stuff!
A brief History of Rope Bondage
When we speak about ‘Rope Bondage,' there are many things we could mean. It could be about intense sexual intercourse, tying your partner to the bedposts for restriction or pleasure, or intricately woven rope patterns.
This term integrates three rope bondage styles: western, Eastern(Japanese🎌), and decorative.
This section will talk about the origin of the Rope bondage technique. Contemporary rope bondage techniques started in the 19th century, and both Japanese and western rope bondage enhanced their ways during the 20th century.
We are not saying that no one tried to tie their partner up for sexual enjoyment before that time, but it is just the time when people came to know about this kinky stuff.
When we deeply examine the rope bondage system in the east, we realize that japan goes way back with its bondage stuff. They used to tie up and capture with a rope called “hojojutsu.”
Although, there are no traces of direct linkage of hojojutsu with the modern rope bondage technique.
The development of modern ‘Shibari' and ‘Kinbaku,' with its sensual/erotic or sadism, is generally traced back to a ‘Seiu Ito', a contemporary artist who incorporated these ropes in his sexual activities in the late 2000s.
His work inspired other artists to get on board like Osada Eikichi, Akechi Denki, Nawashi Kanna, Chimuo Nureki, Akira Naka, Yukimura Haruki, Kazami Ranki, Randa Mai, Arisue Go, and others. Japanse rope bondage is often referred to as ‘Shibari,' loosely translated to ‘to tie' and ‘Kinbaku,' which is translated as' tie-up with force.'
The term rope bondage in eastern culture and western culture always runs on the debate. Although, the involvement of rope bondages for sexual pain and pleasure means sensuality, sexuality, shame, or submission in all cultures.
An overview of ‘Shibari' and ‘Kinbaku.'
We already mentioned the meaning of both of these words in the previous section. Ultimately, Shibari and Kinbaku lead to the only process.
You tie up a person to fulfill your sexual desire. Kinbaku is often incorporated with the emotion of the bonded person. The only condition in Japanese rope bondage is that it should look aesthetically pleasing.
Some ropes do not mean that you will tie up a person with rough ropes from the ceiling and call BDSM. BDSM's means that the sex should be pleasurable for both the bondage.
Therefore in Shibari, the artists used thin satin ropes, which were heaven to look at! You should be masted in knotting and de-knotting if you consider tying up your partner with that rope. Otherwise, the whole process will hurt your partner, and it will eventually become a mess.
The person tying up a rigger and the person tied up is called a rope bunny.
Aesthetics of Japanese bondage
The aesthetics of the bonded person are critical. The rigger often ties up the rope bunny in a very sensual position. But the desirable experience can be turned into a painful experience if the instruction is not followed correctly.
With Shibari, the positions which are employed are often asymmetric and uncomfortable. So that the bonded person is at the total mercy of his dominator.
Traditional japans rope bondage uses natural vegetable fiber rope.
But the Japanese masters consistently work on the material of the ropes and introduce a new range with time.
The natural fibers of the rope are easily formed into a knot, and the person can start working on the delicate knots.
If a rigger goes overboard with some techniques, he is not following the traditional Japanese way.
Shibari terminology to know
The beautiful knots of the Shibari often resemble a web of a spider, which is delicately formed to tangle around the rope bunny's entire body.
If done with the correct technique, Shibari feels comfortable, easy but restricted at the same person. The rope bunny will think that something is covering their body, and they want to stop, but at the same time, they do not want to stop.
The traditional rope should not feel uncomfortably tight. But, when the rope bunny tries to free themselves, they will be unable to.
Tied up in a Shibari also makes the rope bunny feel they have given up their control. They cannot predict whatever will happen next, so they think that the rigger is their life savior for a while.
Self-formation of Shibari Rope
If you are thinking of making shibari rope on your own, you should keep a few things in your mind. If we speak about the materials, try to contact jute or hemp ropes, but nylon is also possible.
It does not matter that what kind of rope you're using. If it fits in your price range, that should do good for you. However, you should keep in mind that there is also one thing you should keep in mind: the size of the rope.
Keep in mind that the size of the rope should vary between 4 and 6mm. For the newbies, thin strings are not at all RECOMMENDED as the thin ropes tend to bite in the rope bunny's skin if a specific restriction is applied to the pattern.
Some Bondage Ropes to Start with
If you are in a dilemma that Shibari starts with, we are here to ease the work for you. Below is a few rope bondages, which we think would go best for beginners.
#1. Nylon Bondage Rope
This kind of rope is the twisted rope. Here you will get a different texture than a regular braid rope. This rope feels smooth and soft but is stronger than the cotton ropes.
A person is likely to get a few compact knots with it quickly. If we speak about the cleaning procedure, it takes just a quick wash.
The only thing is as is a synthetic rope. It is a bit pricey than the regular cotton ropes.
But, if you are willing to be kinky to the highest level, then this nylon bondage rope will leave you and your partner utterly satisfied!
#2. Hemp Bondage Rope
Hemp is one of the most common natural ropes used for Shibari. It is usually pricer than any synthetic rope. It usually comes in a twisted form as opposed to the braids.
Hemp bondage rope has an excellent tooth. You will certainly feel like something wants to take over your body, and also, significantly fewer knots are required in the formation.
Also, the material is quite strong. No matter how hard you pull, the fabric will not break.
The only issue with this kind of rope is its ability to shed fibers.
No matter how many precautions you take, the shredded fibers usually irritate both sexual partners.
#3. Tossa Jute
Tossa Jute is another favorite of all the shibari enthusiasts. Although jute rope is somewhat pricey compared to the regular strings, it comes with various forms of lays. The higher they lay, the more is the durability of the rope.
You get the right amount of lays you want with Tossa jute if appropriately conditioned. The formation of the knots is not that difficult to untie, and any rigger can efficiently deal with the material. Also, they have an extremely earthy smell, which spikes up your sexual desires even more.
But like every jute rope, Tossa Jute is also somewhat pricey. If you want to invest in something more substantial and at the same time practical for your Shibari, you should go with Tossa Jute!
Misconceptions of Shibari
This section will walk you through all the things we say for Shibari and are not valid. If you want to stay confident in your shibari talk, you certainly want to avoid these misconceptions.
Misconceptions
- #1 It is not called ‘Shibari.'This sexual technique is famous for ‘Shibari,' but it is not what they call Japan. The whole rope bondage technique is referred to as ‘Kinbakui in japan.
The term ‘Shibari' has been made famous by the western audience. If you use the word Shibari in japan, they certainly know what it is actually.
On the other hand, if you say'Kinbaku', they will know you are talking about the kinky stuff. - #2 It is not some sacred art that every Japanese participates in.People who say that Kinbaku is an ancient Japanese knot-tying technique”, then that term is certainly not correct.
In fact, for sexual purposes, Kinbaku was introduced after the 1950s. It was called hojojutsu, which meant a groping technique for all the criminals. But with time, it was adopted in sexual performances by the Japanese masters and started slowly referring to ‘Kinbaku.' - #3 Not everyone is in for SEX.It will not be correct to say that everyone inspired by Japanese rope bondage is a group of horny individuals. As the Kinbaku technique goes way back, some people find the method delicate and inspiring.
So, if you ever heard these words like Shibari and Kinbaku, you do not need to take your mind just to the erotic stuff. - #4 The people who participate aren't ‘Sadist.'Do not think even for a second that the people who like to enjoy rope bondage techniques are emotionally damaged in any way. Not the rigger or the rope bunny is any devil in this act.
We cannot speak for everyone. Maybe some people who adopt this technique have the intention to hurt their partner.
The truth is that someone who enjoys torturing people and does kinky stuff in the form of BDSM experienced some mental trauma or has a mental health issue in which someone needs to be bound or gagged.
🌟Japanese Rope Bondage FAQ
What is Shibari?
Shibari is an old Japanese bondage art tying, connecting a binder, and abound in a beautiful and erotic performance rooted in eastern aesthetics. In the West, shibari is confused with kinbaku, and even though they are used interchangeably, they remain two distinctive approaches to tying. Shibari means “to tie,” which doesn't refer to any particular type of tying in Japan. A shibari performance generally carries meaningful symbolism.
To tie and being tied is the experience. Kinbaku means “tight binding” and is a practice that uses rope tying to restrain the body for erotic pleasure and foreplay. It can be associated with regular Western rope bondage within BDSM circles. Both Shibari and Kinbaku (tight binding) refer to the actual tying. Kinbaku-bi means “to be tied up,” while Shibari-bi means “to tie.”
How to start practicing shibari?
In Japanese, the word shibari means to tie or bind and is often used in bondage and BDSM. This ancient traditional art form originated in Japan (of course) and was practiced for centuries. It is believed that the very first shibari was created by tying a woman in an elaborate knot while having sex with her. However, these days it has evolved into expressing one’s sexuality and creativity.
Due to the risks involved, it is essential to learn from masters and certified professionals because rope bondage is not something more people want to get involved in casually. The risks include falling, asphyxiation, compression of nerves, damage to other body parts, and circulation problems. I’m sure you don’t want that kind of problem!
What are the advantages of shibari?
Shibari is widely considered an art form, especially in Japan, where the rope work is known for its aesthetics and countless forms. It is a modern and preferred method of bondage all across the world. Its main purpose is to enhance sexual pleasure, not the infliction of pain and suffering.
For some people, it is a spiritual experience of self-control and surrendering. It brings a strong awareness of presence in body and mind for others. It is a sense of floating in space and a strong connection to the partner. It is also a way to let go in an uncomfortable position. It is also a way to practice body positivity and acceptance. It is also a way to increase awareness of your body and muscles. It is also a way to stimulate creativity and act as a meditation. It also helps you manage your emotions and is a form of stress relief.
